Thursday, August 27, 2009

so i ended my last blog with "i will keep you posted".
i guess i didn't say how often?
certainly much has past since last october, though, as with these diaries - no space will pass between one post and the next.

some 2009 news:

one: eric and i bought a house*
*it's nice to have our own place. at the same time, it's weird that bunnings has become our favourite shop. who would have thought shopping for ladders could be so enjoyable?
**i like to say we almost have a sea view. if our neighbours across the road oblige and open all their curtains, it is possible to peer all the way through! seeing the water every day as i go to and from work is a sight i will always treasure.

two: i am still a teacher*
*this year i also became an assistant dean. which pretty much means i look after 300 kids through all types of issues which range from what you can imagine the range would be with teenagers. i like it but it is a massive challenge.
**classical studies proves to be popular as it involves me pacing around the room dramatically re-telling mythological stories of angry gods that send pigs to attack kings and humans that are thrown into firey pits and so on.

three: i am still an archaeologist*
*unfortunately this is in my head and heart more so than in actual digging expeditions at present. never-the-less i don't doubt getting back into the field.

four: i love new books with old characters!*
*i have always enjoyed a good novel series. back in the mid nineties (oh so long ago now) i read two fantastic series by a woman called bodie theone. then this year eric discovered (how glad i am that he loves the library) that she had written more - with the original characters! to think that ten years later i could pick up a book and be right back to the very day the last book finished... it's a real treat!

five: i'm re-learning the guitar*
*i'm trying to get better at guitar. i learnt the basics when i was fifteen and then promptly stoppedown playing. now i have my own parlour guitar (the fancy name for a smaller baby-sized guitar) and eric and i try and play along together.

it's now my bedtime. i won't promise i will write more often. but one day i will write again. i always do.

Sunday, October 26, 2008

well.
it HAS been awhile :).
and yet here i am, only a few lines on from where i left off!

this year i have strived to be a teacher.
i've had ups and downs:
my biggest challenge is to suddenly discover that sometimes some people (insert teenagers) don't like listening to me and i have struggled with this concept. why don't they like listening to me? i've never had to deal with this in the past.

my biggest positive was to have other parents tell me that their child comes home each day and wants to repeat, word for word, stories i have told them in class. that made me smile.

in other life stories:
we have a kitten now. her name is phoenix.
we no longer live out of suitcases (i was up to four years and counting).
it means we can have people over for dinner.
so we do.

on the archaeological front:
i miss it.
a lot. and still see myself as an undercover archaeologist posing as a teacher and just waiting for the next opportunity.

will keep you posted.

Friday, August 03, 2007

back in the day i used a variety of search engines to look things up on the net.
now google reigns.
in fact it is now normal to simply say "google it" and be understood.

a similar phenomena is hitting new zealand shores.
its called facebook.

i would like to think that i have in some way helped in the planting of facebook in new zealand. maybe this is too extreme of an opinion to hold in public internet space. you have to be careful these days.

still, this time last year facebook was rarely talked about.
however since the start of this year, and incidentally just after i jumped into this new virtual world, the people of new zealand started to sign up.

facebook (www.facebook.com) is addictive. its fun. it quite possibly could be run by a secret society planning on taking over the world. nevertheless it does explain a little about my lack of commitment to blogger as facebook has become my new photo album and my new chatting space.

what will "they" ("they" being the unknown fuzzy group of people/robots/dolphins) think up next? if i knew, id obviously be part of them. so thats obviously a rhetorical question.

Friday, July 27, 2007

today's title: canada

firstly there was our rededication...



then there was an adventure to toronto...



then there were lots more adventures but i haven't uploaded those photos yet...

but i did see a moose (three in fact)
and we did go canoeing
and eric was a groomsman at a second wedding!
and then we all sat around and told lots of riddles.

e.g.
a man comes home, goes up the stairs, turns off the light and goes to bed.
in the morning he wakes up, looks out the window, and there are bodies all around his house.
what happened?

Friday, June 22, 2007

we taught at schools for seven weeks
we moved house three times
we went to hamilton with six others
to watch the all blacks play canada!

my last assignment has been handed in
the semester has officially finished
the course is half way to completion
and tomorrow we fly to canada!

Wednesday, May 02, 2007



my passport expired last month. this is rather convenient because i have a new surname now. and the new zealand system is quite remarkable in that it was able to check with the "marriages" department as to whether i had in fact married and what my new surname should be. no need for certified copies or originals to be shown. for this i am grateful.

however. i am disappointed to find that new zealanders are no longer allowed to smile for their passport photos. i recall, back in the day, when i discovered friends' unsmiling overseas passports and i laughed and said "that's ridiculous. that would never happen in new zealand". alas, i have been proven wrong.

but why i ask you? why can't we smile? this photo doesn't look like me. it's too serious. too unsmiley. when i show up at the airport in a couple of months am i supposed to put on an equally distressed look for the customs officer?

Wednesday, April 18, 2007

i am having a dejavu moment.

long ago, in the days of leuven, i used to write posts as a procrastination technique. it seemed a lot healthier than continual games of mindsweeper. and it didn't really feel like procrastinating because i was still on the computer and i was still typing so i was basically just taking a formal thinking break from academia.

now here i am, back home in new zealand, and well in need of some sort of procrastination... why not say hello?

firstly, procrastination is once more necessary because im once more back at university. this time in new zealand. and this time in the middle of a literature review assignment. my literature review was the hardest part of my masters thesis back in the day because:

literature that needs to be reviewed tends to be of the sort that is a) hard to read and b) not very interesting to read.

one day, if i write something significant, something that might be reviewed, i hope that whoever is doing the reviewing will smile and think a) this is easy to read and b) this is interesting to read.

that is my goal. that, and to finish this literature review today.

Saturday, March 31, 2007



a couple more pictures of our wedding day...


Saturday, March 10, 2007


saturday 17th february 2007


the countdown finished counting down and the sun rose to shine upon us out at north piha beach. a day without wind and without clouds, a day with family and with friends. eric and i are now happily married and plenty of photos from our special day can be found at:


thank you to all those that came and celebrated with us in person and thank you to all those who sent messages and cards and thoughts on the day. we could not have asked for a more precious wedding.


Saturday, February 03, 2007

two weeks today i will have a new signature! i've been practising.

so much is going on right now and the timeline is short:

there's everyone arriving from north america in a week
there's the wedding in two weeks
there's the trip with everyone after the wedding for a week
there's enrolling in university which starts straight after everyone leaves
there's eric's permanent residency visa application process
there's our house-sitting plans

life is busy and i'm doing my best to see the lightest, funniest, calmest side of it...

two interesting facts about the above:

*i had my shortest/longest telephone conversation(s) this week when i was transferred to (insert large number here) different people at auckland university when trying to sort out the timetable clash that shouldn't exist but does...

to make me feel better? eat macdonalds happy meal for lunch and play with toy that makes cool noise.

*eric needs fingerprints for immigration purposes. we go to local police station. they will only take fingerprints if eric has done something wrong. we consider loitering. this is not "wrong" enough. only three places in auckland do fingerprints for immigration. we are in the zone for one particular police station that is on the other side of town (don't understand how the zoning scheme cuts across most of the city). they have only one person who can do the procedure (called putting erics finger on a stamp pad and then putting his finger on a card to record print). this person is semi-retired and only is available for a few hours on a wednesday afternoon. they are, therefore, booked up for a long time. second police station is not happy as we are not in the right zone but could squeeze us in "if they have to", but once again at an inconvenient time. third place is basically not in auckland and has a sneaky way of saying in the phone book it is in one far south suburb but is in fact in an even more further south suburb.

to make me feel better? well, really, when you explain it to someone it becomes too ridiculously funny that its impossible not to laugh. plus, there must be something cool to do in papakura so we will make a day of it and invent fun things to do in the car along the way.

Thursday, January 25, 2007

rewind 2006:

i've always dreamt of going on that big roadtrip - the one where you have no job until you need one, the one where you don't really know where you are going until you are forced to look at a map, the one where you live each day as it comes until you realise you have no more tins of beans and have to get to a town with a shop...

and that's what eric and i did from january - october 2006.

and part way through eric proposed and i said yes and we set the date for february 17th 2007!

in october i headed to egypt to work on a dig and had one of the most incredible experiences of my life. i found a couple of excerpts from emails i wrote when i was there... bringing back images of life - the good and the ugly...

"at first we lost power - not the end of the world and it did come back after about 24 hours. for a time. it was down again yesterday. but then the septic tank got full so we needed to get a truck in to empty it. then the truck got stuck in the front yard spilling some of its contents... finally it made it up the drive only to dump the waste literally on the other side of the road. the stray dogs loved this of course and enjoyed coming back over to see us after having a play. this was repeated all day long so for that day the toilets were out of action. later on in the day the water mains cut out across the village. we were without water for 3 days. this caused so many people to get sick - we only had the turkish toilet but no water to clean it off with. there were girls throwing up and girls with bad diarreha so basically that toilet became offlimits pretty quickly. illness spreads like wildfire when theres no water. we do of course have a supply of mineral water for drinking but that didnt make too much of a difference. the water came back yesterday finally only to decide to break down again today. and then the power went down again when the truck trying to fix the water problem broke a line in the road. how much worse can it get? so many people are sick..."

"this afternoon im heading off to the biggest souq in cairo. its a crazy colourful place with so many different smells and sights. i love it there and am able to lose myself in the tiny alleyways of stalls. i have a way of closing out the world and not listening if i don't want to, and i can easily merge in and out of people, threading here and there, without paying attention to all the comments and calls of shopkeepers wanting to sell me their products. i actually find it relaxing, i love the sound of arabic, and i can almost escape the people despite the hundreds that line the way. "

i arrived home just before christmas and it took awhile for me to re-adjust to the western world where carpet and doors and real beds and no sand is normal...

2006 has finished, 2007 has begun...

Saturday, December 30, 2006

check it out:

www.bexanderic.com

more to come...

Tuesday, December 19, 2006

living...




working...




socialising...




loving...




Thursday, October 05, 2006

where have i been you ask?

i spent the last four months working on a volcano*
i also spent the last four months learning to snowboard**
and i met heaps of great people.***
yay!
thanks guys.

and yesterday as eric and i drove home, mt ruapehu, distressed at our departure, decided to give us a bit of a farewell.

a wee cry? a wee rumble? a wee eruption!

i will post pictures v shortly.



* thanks to my ticket crew
** me and pahia even did a black diamond run
*** you know who you are

Monday, September 11, 2006

i suppose i ought to mention that eric proposed :)

i said yes.

we are getting married in february.

yay!

Wednesday, July 19, 2006

these days i live on a mountain.
well, not exactly. i live at the bottom of a mountain and every day i bus up the mountain to work.
if you recall (and it will be easy to recall if you scroll to the post below this!) eric and i tramped through tongariro national park in the summertime. now we are both working on mount ruapehu for the ski season.
he works in the rentals shop, i work in customer services selling tickets. it's a lot of fun working with people and dealing with customers from all around the world.
exciting adventures had so far:
i learnt to put chains on a bus.
we (staff and customers) got stuck up on the mountain when the snow closed the road and didnt get down until nearly 8pm (people had been waiting since 2pm).
i am learning to snowboard.

for those interested in the mountain itself:

www.mtruapehu.com

Wednesday, June 14, 2006

pictures say a thousand words? since the start of this year, eric and i have tramped (overnight with packs - this does not count day walks...) over 240km! here's a bit of a view of what we saw...

we started in the summertime with our tent!
cape reinga walkway: 45km




then we journeyed into the mountains - of a volcanic variety.
tongariro national park: 45km




once hitting the south island we headed back to the beach.
abel tasman national park: 57km